tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15178007.post66070686571975434..comments2024-02-25T16:56:47.627-05:00Comments on Magdalene's Egg: Forgot One, LisaFather Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18170260624474428623noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15178007.post-5264886988796183532009-07-11T15:59:02.846-04:002009-07-11T15:59:02.846-04:00While, of course, the man can be "wronged&quo...While, of course, the man can be "wronged" it seems it is usually the woman on the sidelines. Girls, women, in general, need to learn that when there is any kind of incident, they are not the fools, but the one who actually is acting like a fool who is the fool. Therefore, women, hold on to the dignity that is innately yours! Too many of us are not taught to have high self-esteem when we were children. <br /><br />I remember one time when a guy was hitting on me in a particularly gross way, but I was in a situation where I literally could not leave. Rather than make a scene, I kept my mouth shut. But later, I used this as a lesson for my girls: The guy was the fool, not me. I SHOULD have made a scene and been proud of doing so.LoieJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01977264499770654307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15178007.post-32883208277170884862009-07-11T14:56:41.688-04:002009-07-11T14:56:41.688-04:00yes, and much of the shame is in having to fight f...yes, and much of the shame is in having to fight for dignity. vows of any kind seem to have innate dignity. when a vow is broken how truly sad that it is the victim left fighting for dignity lost by association. am i perhaps missing something here?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com